Some facts about ((((pornography))) and why you should think twice before watching.
- Pornography has a high addictive nature. It produces similar effects on the brain as cocaine. [3]
Unlike real sex, pornographic ‘highs’ are extremely easy to achieve. Even visiting a brothel needs money. Porn simply needs a click and a dark room. This easy availability conditions our brain into an idea of ‘ease’ and stagnation. You completely lose the exhilaration of ‘the chase’. Why try to find a partner when you can satisfy your sexual desires with the buttons on a mouse? Porn gives males their instant satisfaction, without the effort involved in getting to know women.
Pornography is an extreme expression of individualism and selfishness. The viewer is using a person’s body to bring pleasure only to himself, which weakens the ability to empathize with other people. Porn starts small, but it grows, and with it arrives a self-centered and selfish lifestyle. It is an activity that is done in a dark lonely room entirely for self-interesed pleasure. Pornography induces us to think that only our self-gratification matters. True happiness comes from making others happy. Doing things that only you enjoy is not the road to happiness, it is the road to missery and depression. It is likely that you do not discuss your porn habits because inwardly, you recognise that it is inherently wrong. Even though it has been ‘normalised’, there is still an inward feeling that it is ‘wrong’. Sex was created for love giving and life giving — and the pleasure is the bonus. This society has it all the way twisted. It is for the pleasure. And the rest of it — screw that.” [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vI_PhklUkmo]
If we analyze the characteristics of the characters in porn videos from places like Pornhub, Brazzers, and similar, we can describe their traits as narcissistic, selfish, and superficial. We are encouraged to engage in our own urgent sexual satisfaction whilst ignoring whether psychological damage, or physical pain is being inflicted. We do not consider that the young girls was in debt induced paralysis needing a short term money infusion and fell for the short term money gain. Her dalliance whilst debt-bound will damage her future professional career, her personal psycology, and her abiltiy to find and hold a mate. She will houanted by the embarasement if her moaning and cries whilst under duress as her clip circulates amongst the back room masturbaters of the world. Her sanctity and dignity are destroyed for life.
Nobody thinks:
“Did that person want to be there?”
“Is it good for her?”
“Is she doing it because she likes it?”
“Is she suffering?”
“Is he mistreating her?
When you’re watching porn and masturbating, you just want pleasure, whilst ignoring the effect on you and the effect on the actors created by your demand. You are completely indifferent to the suffering of that actress or porn actor, all that matters is your personal momentary pleasure. This, together with the hedonistic and narcissistic nature of pornographic films, makes us come to see people as mere objects of our pleasure, we lose our empathy for the next person, which consequently generates interpersonal relationship problems. For this reason people who consume a lot of pornography have difficulties maintaining healthy relationships. Pornography is destroying relationships because it gives us a totally distorted and unrealistic perspective of what sex and human relationships are in general, which creates frustration and explains why so many couples are ‘sick’ of each other today. Pornography exacerbates our egotistical, narcissistic, hedonistic and corrupt nature, since we seek only our pleasure and personal gratification without concern for the wellbeing of our partner. One study, men rated their partners as less attractive after viewing sexually-explicit images. [1] Porn distorts its watchers view of ‘acceptable’ beauty. It tends to lead to an inaccessably high standard of beauty that not even attained by the actors in real life. Beauty is seen as physical rather than the whole being and character of the person. This leads to the loss of real manhood – the ability to have sexual intercourse with real live females. In more scientific wording:- Studies have shown that the regular watching of pornography may re-wire reward circuits in the brain such that ‘sexual dysfunction’ occurs which then increased the dependence on porn for sexual satisfaction. [2]
Pornography is different from normal sexual intercourse, which is an activity in itself pleasurable, whilst masturbation is not. The act of masturbating is just a means of ‘relieving’ yourself. In healthy sex, the activity as a whole gives the people involved a pleasant feeling of togetherness — they hug and hold each other afterwards and stare into each other’s eyes. They lie in bed together with their arms and legs wrapped around each other. The level of togetherness in real sex between loving partners is far more engaging generating a far happier outcome containing ‘togetherness’. It is something that provides a happy experience of physical contact with a person for whom you generally feel affection. It improves our self-esteem and is good for mental and physical health. Although there is not necessarily ejaculation, healthy sexual contact still provides pleasure. For example, when you and your wife or girlfriend kiss intensely, you do not ejaculate, but a truly pleasant experience occurs that gives lasting fond memories. In masturbation, you’re just artificially inducing your brain to have a momentary chemical reaction. Hence the addictive power of pornography. Furthermore, healthy sex is a joint work between two people, which occurs naturally and dynamically. In masturbation you make repetitive movements in order to achieve a result. These repetitive movements recondition our brain, directly affecting our frontal cortex. We become more impulsive, anxious and inclined to have repetitive behaviors, bad habits and mania.
- 90% of pornography does not portray healthy sex. The almost psychopathic nature of their characters extends to the way they practice their sexual relations. Common situations in pornographic films contain:
- Marital infidelity
- Incest
- Pedophilia
- Sadomasochism
- Humiliation of women
- Degradation of women
- People who take advantage of their power situation to coerce someone into having sexual relations.
- Voyeurism
- Situations involving feces and urine
- Drugs and alcoholism
- Violence against women
- Wives who take pleasure in humiliating and hurting their husbands physically and emotionally.
- Girls in rape situations.
- Women obeying male commands in a subservient manner suggesting that it is women’s role to satisfy every male sexual whim.
- Torture.
- Sex in the work or school environment. It is sexual propaganda normalizing pupil to teacher and employee to employer gratifying sex.
- Employee and student sex for personal gain.
The people who run the porn industry also run the sex trafficking of women and children. Many bosses and directors in the porn industry are notorious molesters, sexual predators, and pedophiles. During an analysis of over eighty million child pornography images, ‘The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children’ estimated that one in six of runaways reported in 2016 were likely sex trafficking victims. This means these children were likely involved in either the pornography industry or in sex trafficking. Over sixty Japanese models and actresses stepped forward and said they were forced into shooting porn when they showed up to what they thought would be a photoshoot. This deception is portrayed as its own genre as ‘fake interview’ porn, where young girls are tricked into sexual activities and the results broudcast world-wide.
Many porn actors and actresses are victims of sexual abuse, humiliation, physical abuse, mental abuse and degradation. Kindly do a web-search concerning porn actresses and actors that have been victims of sexual abuse in childhood and adolescence. Many started their careers in this industry when they were still minors, being enticed by pedophiles. There are many porn actresses and actors that coming out of porn industry and denouncing the activities that goes on behind the scenes.
Your watching of pornography contributes to the demand for pornography production which contributes to the degradation of the human participants being reduced to objects. Your demand for new films causes a harmful influence on our society and to a mafia of molesters and pedophiles. If you want to remain a healthy person, mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, do not watch pornography. If you do not want to contribute to an industry that degrades our gullible young, do not watch pornography. Then alert other people about the evil involved. Choose not to watch porn, and you will be choosing the healthy option for everyone. If you are a young male, you may suffer a worse fate — you may become unable to obtain an errection and participate in sex with real females. Your manhood only rises to attention in the close physical presence of a female or the visualisation of a naked female or a picture of a naked female. You cannot will your manhood to rise. I can tell my right arm to rise and it rises. If I tell my manhood to rise, it ignores my request. Only the real or virtual image of a female can cause it to rise. (Although, early morning ‘boners’ occur.) Even self-stimulation may not cause it to rise without the addition of a reqal or virtual image. The problem here is that you will alter your mind to accept the visual image to the real woman. Bang goes your manhood and virility. You were built for a purpose, and one of them was to get females pregnant. It is called “biology” for a reason. Everyone starts life as a meeting of gametes. We are all a product of an orgasm. Your father got inside your mother’s knickers. Your grandfather got inside your grandmother’s knickers. They all act normal in your presence, but it happended. In fact all your male ancestors ‘fucked’ their sweathearts. Some even got their grilfriends regnant before they married them. They were lucky the locals kept quiet about his ‘indiescression’. These male ancestors had no internet, so they ‘fucked’ their wives. And that iis how you got here. They would roll over in their graves if they thought their offspring was not interested, nor capable of ‘having it off’ with ‘the sweeted girl in town’ and caring for the resultant offspring. They would be horrified if they thought that younger men could not get aroused with a real woman. Porn destroys lives.
[1] Kenrick DT, Gutierres SE, Goldberg LL. ‘Influence of popular erotica and judgments of strangers and mates.’ In: Plous S, editor. Understanding prejudice and discrimination. McGraw-Hill; New York: 2003. P243–248.
[2] Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports.Park et al., 2016 Abstract: “Traditional factors that once explained men’s sexual difficulties appear insufficient to account for the sharp rise in erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, decreased sexual satisfaction, and diminished libido during partnered sex in men under 40.” and: “Alterations to the brain’s motivational system are explored as a possible etiology underlying pornography-related sexual dysfunctions. This review also considers evidence that Internet pornography’s unique properties (limitless novelty, potential for easy escalation to more extreme material, video format, etc.) may be potent enough to condition sexual arousal to aspects of Internet pornography use that do not readily transition to real-life partners, such that sex with desired partners may not register as meeting expectations and arousal declines. Clinical reports suggest that terminating Internet pornography use is sometimes sufficient to reverse negative effects, underscoring the need for extensive investigation using methodologies that have subjects remove the variable of Internet pornography use.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/27527226
[3] https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-affects-the-brain-like-a-drug
