The Church has been reluctant to talk about sexual relations. Under the current lax sexual morality, it is necessary to recognize the problem. For this reason, I give give you some background.
I don’t have all the answers to this, but we do need to get the the remainder of the population to recognise the nature of the problem.
Let us start with this gem:
Behaviour expectations are different for men and women. Men appear to have higher expectations on their behaviour. There was a perception that society turned a blind eye to male promiscuity whist calling promiscuous women sluts. Perception may have been reversed.
Modern women offer less:
I don’t deserve to be a single mother:
Women complain when men approach them. Women complain when men don’t approach them. The commonality is that ‘women complain’.
One sentence iin the above was:
Instead of slightly tweaking the old system,
Some illogic and emotional abuse:
Some more illogic.
Some of the narative includes:
Because, instead of just tweaking the old system of courting and waiting till marriage, society said “Fuck it”, and burn the whold damn thing to the ground. Giving birth to hookup culture under the banner of empowering and freeing women.
by FBE Capital
And men also don’t go home and then make TikTok videos about how lonely they are after just saying they don’t need men.
So currently, you have modern women wanting courtship and chivalry, but they seem to forget that those two come at a price. Courtship and chivalry existed for a very specific reason which allowed both parties to benefit from it. Women were getting safety and security of income and access to wealth, while men were able to build a legacy and show their level of success through marriage and children. So, clearly, both men and women had a vested interest in finding a longterm partner, and this created a very strict code of conduct for both men and women. That is no longer the case because, even though both men and women have lost some benefits from longterm relationships, it is men who have seen the cost of engaging in longterm relationship rise while losing the benefits. …. Which is exactly why some men are simply playing the field but not committing while other have completely checked out.
Watch the above video a second time.
Women don’t mind supporting a double-standard provided it benefits them. Here is an example:
There is another famous example when a tinder account had a profile photo of a really good looking man. But in its bio it was literally written that he was a child molester. But still the girls flocked to the account. And even messaged him and forgave him for molesting a child.
https://cheezburger.com/3017733/guy-conducts-twisted-experiment-on-tinder-as-fake-child-rapist-and-gets-horrifying-results
Here is a list from Suchismita:
- If a man hits a woman, he’s wrong; if a woman hits a man, he must have done something wrong.
- If a man sexually abuses a woman, its rape; if a woman does it, its indecent sexual assault.
- All a woman has to do is cry to show she is hurt, and if a man cries, he’s judged for it.
