Porn destroys lives. It is a weapon as Candace says and it’s causing the West’s population to decline. It’s the number one reason relationships between genders are going south.
Usually it’s the man with a porn issue according to stats – over half of men out there have seen it or watch it regularly.
Some say ‘I only watch it every week or every other month’. A person with a healthy mind who is grounded in reality, and is operating with consistent integrity and basic human decency should not be watching it at all.
There is a reason my gen aren’t getting married. It’s pornography and lust issues which are guaranteed to stuff up otherwise promising, fruitful relationships.
Both men and women can fall into lust issues. Even in church, Christian porn watching stats mirror the same stats as secularists.
Guys with porn or lust addictions won’t be able to hold down or commit to relationships. That’s how you know if they’re likely a porn viewer. They’ll have friends who also can’t appear to hold down relationships.
Men are becoming pickier and pickier in relationships. This happens when they have a lot of options online.
But imagine trying to gain sexual gratification through a screen instead of through an actual person. These will be men who see women as objects.
Any healthy minded decent male will see women as offering more than just a body to a partnership. They will prefer real women to screens.
Some men don’t. They are red flags and stay away from those types because research indicates they are narcissists who most likely struggle with issues like misogyny or they see women as stupid objects. Psychos are in this category and some autistic men who lack empathy – you won’t understand the mind of someone who lacks empathy so don’t try and understand their behaviour- they were often parented by psychos or people with issues themselves or people who also can’t parent or discipline kids enough so empathy is developed.
So when kids get to adulthood they do what they want with little to no regard as to how what they do affects others.
If you’re a male addicted to pornography the bible actually says you’ll live a life full of penalties – depression and lonliness are top complaints men experience these days and the reason is they’re not finding companions because they aren’t properly respecting women and seeing them as other people with feelings and lives of their own. Women were not created to be a man’s object. They were created to be a man’s helper. And they’re supposed to help the man with their purpose, which is exercising dominion, being fruitful and expanding the kingdom. They are not supposed to ‘help men’ by merely cooking food and offering sex and never rebuking when the man needs it precisely to continue on his purpose instead of stray away from it.
Objectify a woman and you’ll end up with no companion. And men deserve that if they put lust ahead of stopping crime.
There is something extremely evil about watching two people or one person have lustful sex on a screen and masturbating to this content; it’s extreme evil and demonic portals are opened with any unnatural sexual activity that does not take place within a marriage covenant.
If you live a life of problems due to pornography you deserve them because you invited them into your life.
Instead of sympathising with men on this issue and feeling sorry for them, start to give people the reality of how insane a porn addiction actually is and how sick and stupid it looks. If a man prefers a screen to a real woman he’s extremely dim most likely and also very insecure, very narcissistic (insecurity is what drives narcissism), and very self-centred.
Porn addictions are all about gratifying your selfish desires. People don’t give two hoots about the damage it does to kids, or they don’t understand you’re most likely watching trafficking or an under-aged person.
People who put up any kind of sexually suggestive content online are usually only thinking about themselves and their own validation – they don’t understand they’re helping create a hypersexualised culture that is breeding pedophiles.
Men tend to grow out of porn addictions in 30s on average – so when many of them get married. Because the woman in the picture will most likely help a man out of an addiction.
The stats are indicating men are maturing and marrying later and later these days. Which means many single men will be porn watchers or struggling with lust issues. The more you watch, the harder it will be to find an actual companion. Because porn or lustful thinking will destroy your ability to date properly and in a way that will attract a decent woman. The man will stuff up the dating scenario if he has a lust problem. Men with lust issues also tend to have impatience and short fuses – they can’t stand it when they cannot get instant gratification from women – they are used to instant gratification because they can just google porn. A real woman, if she’s decent, will not give a man sex prematurely – definitely not a Christian woman. He’ll therefore get angry and stuff up the whole relationship. Or he’ll look to non Christian women or women prepared to jump straight into marriage and those types are usually lustful situations with no genuine compatibility (you won’t discern compatibility properly because that takes time). So they are on the road to marriage disasters.
Some men don’t think they want or need a companion even if they’re designed for it, because they get lustful desires met with porn.
If you are a man who thinks everything in life comes easy like through a Google search you will never find a worthwhile companion and you won’t put effort in to actually make a marriage or relationship work. Men these days are not used to relationships taking time. They think everything is instant and if not, the girl isn’t suitable. Porn and instant gratification mentalities will kill your prospect of decent companionship and it will frankly, ruin your life, cause lonliness and depression and you’ll reach 2% your potential.
Porn does nothing but cause issues. It causes erectile dysfunction over time too and actually makes men less attractive to women not more attractive.
What women find attractive in men might surprise you:
A) self-control and discipline
B) ample respect for women and their intelligence which may surpass yours at times
Since when were men who sit behind screens 24/7 attractive to women. They aren’t – get off the tech and develop real skills out in the world – if people had to grow their own food they’d be 100 times more attractive to others because they look better when they eat clean plus there’s no time for porn.
Men without porn or lust issues are far more attractive to women than men who have those issues. It is not attractive for women to witness a man who is driven by the flesh. A man driven by the spirit is 50 times more powerful, more beautiful and more dangerous to Satanists than men who give into the methods of Satan.
Don’t be a weak, lazy and unattractive man. Stats for porn viewing in society is diabolical. It’s over half. And it’s rising. Men in their 20s are the highest demographic. That’s the exact age men who were historically at their most powerful, on the battle field.
Do not give up your prime years to porn addictions – it will completely waste your life and probably set the rest of it up for an utter disaster.
Men were designed for helpers, not sex objects that merely affirm men in every decision they make.
A woman helper is not a mere sexual companion – they guide men into succeeding in life so that he can fulfil his duty to exercise dominion, be fruitful or preserve life around him and to expand the kingdom.
Women who put up with lust issues in men aren’t your helpers – they are weakling co-dependent women.
